What capital propagates is the alienation of love; the so-called 'normal' couple
is based on an alienated bond, given that the objectified and
stereotyped woman is not woman but rather the negation of
woman, and the phallic and deficient male is not man but the 
negation of both man and woman. The spectacle of heterosexuality
cannot be identified with any deep amorous desire. Heterosexuality
as it presents itself today is simply the dominant 'normal' form of
a mutilated Eros; and as well as the negation of homoeroticism it
is above all the negation of love between persons of different sex.

mario mieli - homosexuality and liberation - elements of a gay critique